Wednesday, 13 January 2016

How to deal with my sensitive brother in law. He is loving, caring but too much sensitive. He becomes angry if I become straight forward.





My brother in law is studying in college but still he is too sensitive. I think he is not as mature like his elder brother. Sometime such situation arises where I need to scold him because of his attitude but my husband told me not to scold him because he is too sensitive.

Mu husband wants me to sort out things lovingly but when I try to do it his way he does not take me seriously and even I forget to scold him and we both end up in funny conversation but that is not the solution.

But at this point of age if he will not take things seriously than later it will become major issue in his life when would have been married. Because being sensitive all the time is not the good thing. He needs to be growing up.

He is too close to me and the problem is I can not directly say anything to him because even I do not like to hurt him or his feelings for me. As I said he is too caring for me. And believe me he is so loving.

But how can I change him because my mother in law has given me his responsibility to take care of him and make him mature.

My mother in law and father lives in another city and we (Me. my husband and my brother in law) live in another city. So as a female my mother in law gave me this responsibility.

But I do not know how to deal with such sensitive boy?

If anyone here is reading these post than please do not leave this blog without answering. Because I am expecting answers from you.


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4 comments:

  1. If a situation exists thn do not scold him,but go ahead and respond honestly - not rudely,remember tht Don't let the fear of hurting the feelings of your brothr in law stop you from responding appropriately.

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    1. But rock, my problem is i am afraid of hurting him. Can you provide me solution for it? How can I overcome this fear?

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  2. I think rock3 is right. I am agree with him.

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    1. But Rohan my question is how can override that fear of hurting him?

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